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Why I trained to become a family mediator

Until more recently, I have provided only legal advice and support to separating couples but I have always considered mediation to be extremely beneficial to new clients; anything that helps separating couples come to decisions together feels more helpful for them in the long term. 

I have therefore always discussed the possibility of attending mediation at the first meeting even if court proceedings are not being considered. Most will agree it is beneficial for people to make their own decisions, where possible, rather than having a decision imposed on them. Mediation does not always resolve every decision a separating couple needs or wishes to make, but, even in those circumstances, mediation can help in narrowing issues. Fully successful mediation can result in separating couples deciding mutual outcomes in relation to all issues relevant to them.

Mediation allows separating couples to discuss matters openly in a safe and confidential setting. It gives them time and space to consider options and proposals whilst receiving impartial information to enable them to make informed decisions for themselves and their families. I feel mediation is time and cost-effective when compared to lengthy negotiations or contested court proceedings.

I had always been interested in the work my colleagues, Maria Ramon and Chris Lloyd-Smith, complete as accredited mediators. I, therefore, decided I wanted to specialise in mediation alongside my traditional work providing legal advice and representation in relation to family matters. I was pleased to complete the Mediation Foundation Course provided by Resolution between March and May 2021 to qualify as a family mediator. 

I am working alongside Maria and Chris carrying out Mediation Information and Assessment Meetings (MIAMs) to assess if mediation is suitable for the prospective participants and assisting in co-mediation sessions. I have just returned to work following maternity leave and will be concentrating on working towards accreditation.

Further information on our mediation service can be found on our website

You can also telephone or email our mediation assistant, Eve Downer on 0121 212 7413 or eve.downer@anthonycollins.com.

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mediation, family mediation, separation, separating couples, private legal services